The president of single mothers has spoken!
Esther Akoth aka Akothee took her time to get a message across to single mothers who feel the need to depend on a man for their needs. She wants ladies to depend on themselves and be free from feeling trapped.
The mother of five posted a photo of her holding a newborn baby so delicately on Instagram. She went on to empower women in her caption by preaching strength and positivity.
“If only you knew how strong you are as a woman💪, then you will get off your pity party corner and do the necessary. Everyday you wake up thinking that someone impregnated you hence they need to take care of you and your child,” Akothee wrote.
The musician went on to state some harsh truths and reality that ladies need to wake up to before it is too late. She addresses ladies that think men are their ticket to financial freedom. She warned them to be very careful.
“Gone are days when we cornered men with children, 🙆♂️ unfortunately, one man can impregnate 100 women in a year ,and 1 woman can only get pregnant once a year 🙈. I want to be sincere with you, you are digging a hole of depression, anxiety, disappointments, humiliation and pain. Why can’t you use that energy and work on yourself and put your life together.”
Akothee is known to be a smart hardworking lady that gets what she wants. She puts food on her table and cares for her children. A boss lady in deed.
“When you financially, emotionally depend on someone, you give away your freedom. You close doors of happiness and independence, you are forever disappointed and weak. You spend all your day narrating the pain to most people who don’t even care, since half of them laugh at you or have more problems.”
Her last words of wisdom dedicated to the ladies who care to listen, “Make the efforts of putting your shit together, the right daddy will come. Don’t be scared of the consequences, don’t allow pain to take away your power as a woman . Don’t bother with any parent ,who is not interested in participating in the life of his blood🙏, karma will do it for them 💪NOT ALL DOORS ARE CLOSED ,SOME NEED TO BE PUSHED.”
Madam boss should add the title of motivational speaker to her list because wow! So empowering to the girl child.